A gracious reader sent me the following email sent to her from her husband after an argument. Not only is this email a heartfelt apology, it is an example of a man confident in his masculinity and possessing of a full grasp his wife’s needs. With permission, I share it with you:
Dear XXXXX:
I can't get last night out of my mind. I'm so sorry for not listening to
you and honoring you. I know you said it's not a big deal, but I want you
to understand that to me it is.
To me our relationship has been stronger over the past few weeks, and a big
part of that has been because I have been more present in our relationship.
You deserve everything from a man and I want to give that to you. Most
important is honor and respect. Last night I selfishly did neither, I am
ashamed by that.
A brilliant woman once told me that, love is a verb. I agree and I will
deliver that to you never ending for the rest of my life. I can never
apologize enough for how careless I was last night and I can only hope one
day to put that behind us.
You are my world. I passionately love you with all of my heart and I will
care for you, protect you, provide for you, love you, honor you, respect
you, attend to you and cherish you forever.
I love you.
Lucky lady! Good men, real men (women too) are out there.
How beautiful. And, yes what a 'lucky lady.' I'm currently learning that it is okay to be cherished, and loved while still being strong and independant. Woman are hard-wired to be beautiful, and to show off beauty. And men want to be our 'warriors'. And when in battle they make wrong choices, they'll fix it. This man has fixed it sharing his heart and reading her heart pefectly, I'd say.
How beautiful. And, yes what a 'lucky lady.' I'm currently learning that it is okay to be cherished, and loved while still being strong and independant. Woman are hard-wired to be beautiful, and to show off beauty. And men want to be our 'warriors'. And when in battle they make wrong choices, they'll fix it. This man has fixed it sharing his heart and reading her heart pefectly, I'd say.
Lynn:I think so many of us are learning that we can have power, confidence and femininity. They are compliments to one another. Here's to you creating your best life, your way. Judging from your cornucopia of a blog, I think you're already there.Cynthia
Lynn:I think so many of us are learning that we can have power, confidence and femininity. They are compliments to one another. Here's to you creating your best life, your way. Judging from your cornucopia of a blog, I think you're already there.Cynthia