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Hi, I’m Cynthia. For 15 years, I’ve helped single moms to celebrities rewrite limiting beliefs and create joy-filled lives.
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Your greatest self and most fulfilling life are on the other side of self-acceptance and the cessation of the internal civil wars that keep you from reaching your goals.
Whether you’ve taken a wrong turn, suffered a soul-crushing loss, started a new chapter, or simply outgrown an old one, what happens next is up to you. What do you really want? What’s the best way to get there? Who’s your best self now?
I’ve been helping people find their way for most of my life. I’m honored to support you.
ARTICLES: WORDS TO LIVE BY
Your Best Self & Your Best Life
The power of NO and how to use it
Do you say yes when you really want to say no? Do you say yes even if it may cause you...
Holidays, relatives, relationships, and reality
The last time I wrote about ending harmful family relationships, I received a lot of negative mail...
Normalizing Holiday Stress and Heartache
Normalizing Holiday Stress and Heartache Some holidays are wonderful. Others are wonderful and...
How to handle holiday meddlers
How to handle difficult holiday relationships Holiday parties, get-togethers, and family events...
10 Things You Need to Know about Success
photo credit: by Camdiluv ♥ 1. You define what success means for you. Success is achieving...
TEARING THE WALLS DOWN
I’ve discovered something so monumentally life impeding that dealing with it forced me...
Trashing your image may be the best choice
I work with women who often unknowingly spend nearly all their energy trying to live up to someone...
THE COMMON LIES YOU TELL YOURSELF AND HOW TO STOP THEM FROM RUINING YOUR LIFE
Most of us are masterful story tellers. The instant someone does or doesn’t do...
LIFE 095: Anti-Racism and Spiritual Expansion with Dr. Darnise Martin
Life 95: Anti-Racism and Spiritual Expansion with Dr. Darnise Martin Listen on...
LIFE 092: Learning to Talk About Racism
LIFE 92: Learning to Talk About Racism Listen on iTunes.Listen on StitcherStream by...
“For a seed to achieve its greatest expression, it must come completely undone. The shell cracks, its insides come out and everything changes. To someone who doesn’t understand growth, it would look like complete destruction.”
–Cynthia Occelli
“For a seed to achieve its greatest expression, it must come completely undone. The shell cracks, its insides come out and everything changes. To someone who doesn’t understand growth, it would look like complete destruction.”
–Cynthia Occelli

a life you love
Hi, I’m Cynthia. For 15 years, I’ve helped single moms to celebrities rewrite limiting beliefs and create joy-filled lives. My mission is to help you.
Learn 5 little-known, life-changing tools now. Get my free Wise Woman coaching series.

WORK WITH ME 1:1
(Apply now for March 2023)
Your greatest self and most fulfilling life are on the other side of self-acceptance and the cessation of the internal civil wars that keep you from reaching your goals.
Whether you’ve taken a wrong turn, suffered a soul-crushing loss, started a new chapter, or simply outgrown an old one, what happens next is up to you. What do you really want? What’s the best way to get there? Who’s your best self now?
I’ve been helping people find their way for most of my life. I’m honored to support you.