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Have you ever harshly judged another woman for not living up to your definition of right behavior? Have you been judged, dishonored or attacked by a “sister”? Listen to this show and learn how to honor the sisterhood—this and other treasures gleaned from my “Waiting to Exhale” weekend.

Time Markers:

-The power of women united (5:00)
-My annual “Waiting to Exhale” weekend (5:40)
-What women everywhere have in common (10:30)
-How our personal judgments harm other women (12:20)
-For better or worse is subjective (13:00)
-Every woman has a limit (14:00)
-How to help a woman grappling with a painful choice (15:55)
-The destructive impact of comparisons (17:28)
-Competing for a man (aka racing to the bottom) (20:10)
-Ditch the cliques (22:40)
-Say this to married men and men who can, but don’t support their children (26:10)
-You’re a mother, even if you have no children (27:50)
-When you know better, you do better (29:30)
-Do this to women you dislike or envy (30:30)


“Women set the rules for relationships.”

“Forgive a sister who’s made a mistake and learned from it, we all have.”

“The bottom line is that the breaking point for worse is personal and subjective and no one else can know what it is or means for the person living it.”



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